Everyone has moments when we doubt our relationship. And we are especially inclined to do this when reality does not coincide with what we thought of ourselves.
It is necessary to settle only one seed of doubt and - BOOM! - you already come to the most terrible conclusion:
"He does not love me".
You start reading millions of articles about successful relationships and signs of whether you like him or not.
You discuss with his friends his every word, how he said it, how he looked at you, how he touched you - you analyze the smallest details. You are desperately trying to figure out where, what and when went wrong.
You experience different stages of doubt: now in it, then in your thoughts. And despite all your thoughts and advice from the side, you are still not sure that you know the correct answer.
We all went through it.
But be sure of one thing - you are subjective. It's hard to think clearly when feelings are involved. And your friends are also subjective.
Because they love you. This does not mean that you should not trust them or listen to their opinions, it means that they may think that no one will be good enough for you. Just like your grandmother.
So what to do?
Here's what: take a deep breath and don't panic.
Just know that regardless of all quarrels, all your differences, love should be built on mutual respect.
Both of you should respect each other.
Both of you must take care.
Both of you must be true.
And no less.
But you will have a quarrel.
You will need time to adapt to each other, your habits, lifestyle, and make the best of it.
You will definitely have to find a compromise, because no one is perfect, because each of us is individual.
Set boundaries for yourself, what you can accept and what not. Do not justify the actions of your half in the name of love.But do not think anything out, do not waste your time trying to torture yourself because of small things.Take pleasure in living to the fullest.
Because it is precisely flaws, quarrels and our desire to be with those whom we love, and to overcome all obstacles - this makes love so real and beautiful.