The worst thing you can do after his betrayal

People in a relationship are cheating themselves. They feed their minds and hearts with the reality that they invented themselves. And when they learn about the betrayal of their partner, they justify his terrible behavior, because it is very painful to believe in the truth.
First there is a conversation about what was done, about how many times it was, whether feelings are involved.

And then the couple tries to collect pieces of their broken relationships, and usually only one of the couple tries to do it. He agrees to give a second chance if everything changes. But change must not only change, but completely change.

And it seems logical. After all, the person who changed did not get what he needed in a relationship. So both partners are somehow guilty of such an outcome, because you need to change the relationship, and not just the traitor.

A couple can now talk about absolute honesty in everything, even up to the provision of a cheater of phone, mail, and social networks passwords.The demand seems logical, so much so that the perpetrator cannot refuse (otherwise it will be regarded as if he has something to hide).But this will not change his behavior.

First, he does it under pressure. A person may even feel anger and hostility due to the fact that the partner checks his social network, and this is a understandable feeling.

Secondly, this tactic gives only monitoring and creates only the appearance of the fact that all is well. There may be no change, but the person feels due and dependent.

He no longer participates in a relationship of his own accord, but because he was forced. The same thing, when you tell your partner what gift you want for your birthday, and the element of surprise and sincerity is already gone.

Yes, after all, what right does a traitor have to feel anything now, after what he has done?The fact is that ... he has the right to feel rejected due to new circumstances. When they demand too much from a person, when they frankly do not trust him, even if deservedly, it humiliates him, kills his spirit, the desire to improve.

We should not try to control the person, but support him, encourage him to prove to us with our love that we can trust him again. Share your feelings, and not demand something.

After all, if he follows your requirements, it will not be sincere desire. It will be fear and a sense of insecurity, not true love. Do you want that?

You can blame as much as you like for the person who changed you.


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