He is the one who holds your hand in the cinema, even after many years of joint trips to the cinema. When there is a scary, romantic or sad moment on the screen, he always finds your hand in the darkness of the cinema hall and squeezes it lightly, or just takes it in his soft and big palm. He knows that the best part of going to the movies is not the movie itself, but time with you, and your endless discussions of the movie on the way home.
He can barely keep everything secret when he is going to surprise you, and you feel that he is as excited as you are to make you happier. He likes to plan special dates, or just appear on the doorstep with your favorite flowers and dessert, because he knows that the best way to keep romance is to create it. He may not be able to create book scripts, but he specifically made an extra detour along the way from work to buy you the best seats for the concert.
The one you marry may not be the most beautiful, intelligent and strong. But for you, he is the best in all these parameters, because your love for him will change all these parameters to fit his description.And suddenly, he sitting on the couch and watching football with a bucket of ice cream will seem so familiar and even sexy to you. Because he does it.
And you will laugh with his stupid jokes - say someone else, you would not even smile. He may not earn a lot, but you want him to spend more time at home, with you, and not stay up at work at night for the sake of pay rise. He is not perfect, but he is perfect for you.
When you worry about something insignificant, it calms you. When he gets upset over nothing, you know how to cheer him up. For each other, you are like a mixture of a doctor, a psychotherapist and a trusted friend. Sometimes the only thing you need to solve a problem is just to talk.
With him everything will be more interesting. Hike to the store will turn into a real adventure, a walk into a familiar park will be the discovery of many little things that you did not notice. Little weekend trips will be an oasis in the chaos of everyday life. Everything will acquire a new meaning with it, and when something interesting happens, you catch yourself thinking how you would like to see it now and share everything.
The one you marry will always be comfortable, like at home, because you know that he is the only one who can take care of you - so that you don't feel like a child.He will warm up a bowl of soup for you, and he will tell jokes while you eat. He will hug you and surprise you with a passionate kiss. He will spend the whole day with you playing video games, but he will also be able to dress up and go with you to a dinner party.
And yes, sometimes you will quarrel, but you will never doubt that you should be together. If he leaves in a fit of anger, you know that he will walk a bit and come back. And if you say something you regret, you know that he will forgive and embrace until you both feel better.
The one you marry will be your best friend. He will be the one with whom you want to walk, get drunk, undress, be honest, laugh. And if you do it right, your whole life together will be like one big pajama party that will never end.