We all went through this: when late at night you receive a message from your ex / lover / boyfriend who never invited you for a real date, and you are lonely, or you are a little drunk and you drop everything and go to him. And then every time you regret it.
After all, if he wants you only at night, he is not worthy of you.
If he remembers you only when he wants sex, then he needs only your body. A real man will write to you during the day and will want to see you more often than just on a night of love.
He writes you nice words, only to get you, but does not fulfill his other promises.
Of course, it's still nice to think that someone wants you, but that should not determine you.You are more than his midnight message.And if you look at yourself like he is at you, he will win. Because he underestimates you, and if you start thinking that you are worthy of just such a “relationship,” it will be difficult to return your self-esteem.
Do not think that besides him no one else wants you.You will have others, and those who want to see you during the day. So don't waste time on this. One day you will meet someone who will show you what you deserve. And then you want to go back in time and tell yourself that you should not respond to these midnight messages.
After all, it will not change anything between you.The fact that you break down and go to him at night will not force him to make your relationship official.If he wanted, he would treat you with dignity, and not as a call girl.
Moreover, in moments of loneliness, looking at all this from the side, you realize that it is better to be alone than with anyone. What is bad for your sense of self.
Refusing him once, do not give in to the next. You can even allow yourself to make fun of him, so that with irony and sarcasm. After all, you know all his tricks, how he can persuade you to meet.
But you know that you do not need him.And when you wake up in the morning, you'll be glad you stayed home. You are taller and stronger than his pathetic attempts to use you. You are better.