Stop saying you miss bachelor life

“If I were a bachelor ...”, says my friend, staring at the woman at the other end of the bar. He loves his girlfriend, I think he just drank too much - and this suspicion is confirmed when he begins his unsolicited story about "college girls."

People in long-term relationships tell stories about their weirdest and craziest novels, like old men sitting on the porch and saying that they would now chase the ball around the yard, if not for their feet.

A friend rolls his eyes when his girlfriend writes to him, because they know that they need to go home early. “You're so lucky,” they say to their lonely friends, getting up from the table. In fact, this is complete nonsense.
There is nothing wrong with bachelor life. It's cool, but you have to do everything that makes you happy.It is not a debate about whether it is better to be bachelor or in a relationship. It can not even be compared.But if you are in a relationship, then you need to believe that it is better, or then part with her / him and stop complaining.

Or you have such complaints that can be corrected, or then it is better to be alone. If you cling to a bachelor life simply because it’s already 4 years in one relationship is no excuse. Of course, when you were lonely, sex was never boring (when it was). Yes, you had no answer to anyone and could come home whenever you want.

But if you see your bachelor life this way, it means you forgot all those moments when you felt lonely or abandoned, or wanted a new relationship. This means that you deny the love and support that you have in a relationship. This means that for you additional independence is the most precious thing that your girlfriend / boyfriend gives you. In fact, you do not miss bachelor life. You just miss being selfish.

To be alone is hellish.I cannot even count how many times lonely friends have said how afraid they are to be left alone forever or to complain that they feel like a third person, on the side, when we go for a walk. 26-year-old Greg says he worries that his circle of acquaintances is narrowing. "There are well-founded fears that the longer I do not meet, the less likely that I will meet someone and eventually be a lonely guy."

The Internet is trying to instill the beauty of bachelor life.
I constantly meet on the Internet research that allegedly lonely people are in better physical shape, they have fewer debts and more friends. Even when scientists prove the benefits of marriage, this seems like something shocking. We romanticize bachelor life. If Ashley Madison’s recent exposure of the cheating site says something, it’s something that people miss bachelor life. The 27-year-old Craig tried to explain it: “It's not that I want to be a bachelor, I just want days when I can ... I don't know, just come off."

If you are still not sure whether you are missing something that you have never had, or if you are just unhappy, just go and have fun with your friends. If you realize that this is no longer for you, then everything is fine. If this is the best thing that happened to you in recent years, then get ready for parting. There is a difference between whether you want a little more freedom or secretly hope that your partner will leave you first so that you do not seem bad.

So do not sit and do not yearn for a bachelor life.Make your choice and follow it.And what are your lonely friends whom you envy so much? They meet because they want what you have.And that is why you miss.You miss how you tried to find what you already have. What a score. Live with it.

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  • Stop saying you miss bachelor life

    Stop saying you miss bachelor life

    Stop saying you miss bachelor life

    Stop saying you miss bachelor life

    Stop saying you miss bachelor life

    Stop saying you miss bachelor life

    Stop saying you miss bachelor life

    Stop saying you miss bachelor life

    Stop saying you miss bachelor life

    Stop saying you miss bachelor life

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