Ask: “Why this topic?” I’ll just say: “Girls, who are at home waiting for“ lyubof ”who knock on the door as a postman, do not read - it is dangerous for your psyche.” To begin with, a lot of girls are often lost in a given situation and, as a result, they are alone. This article is for them. You can often meet a pretty girl, young, beautiful and ... alone. In this article we will talk about seducing the object of desire by any means. After the goal is achieved, you can do whatever you want - to marry this person, continue to meet, or just leave him as an option. But few women can achieve such opportunities, as they make many mistakes. To avoid failure in seduction, you should follow the basic rules of seduction. So, for starters, about the appearance. Do not read "crap", where they write, how to dress and what to take with you, what hairstyle to do.It is clear that you should be bright and interesting, but this is not enough. Your core is self confidence! The erroneous opinion that it is necessary to be the best is dangerous and gives rise to secret enemies and envy. You are not perfect and this is your plus. You are an individuality, the second is not. Keeping always confident, show thereby that wearing a crown is your destiny. Men are judged initially by appearance. That which cannot be seen has no value. Therefore, never allow yourself to be lost in the crowd, stand out, catch the eye, be creative - whatever the cost. Pull yourself like a magnet. One of the main problems in seduction in women is that we are too subordinate to our feelings, be more restrained in expressing our emotions. Learn to be a good actress, to play sincerity and cordiality, squeeze a tear and cast a look full of sympathy, learn self-control. Nonsense, if you think that your sincerity and love will help you - not in this case, maybe later, but not at the very beginning. Create and manage illusion. If there is something you want, but you cannot possess it - demonstrate your disregard for it.The less interest, the more inaccessible you will seem yourself. Everyone has weaknesses: these include insecurity, uncontrolled emotions or desires, and perhaps little secret entertainment. Anyway, having discovered a weakness, turn it into an instrument of torture, use it to your advantage. Desires often give rise to a paradox: the more we chase after something, the harder it gets into our hands, slipping; the more interest you show to the object of desire, the more it pushes away from you. This is due to the fact that your desire is too strong, it causes the object to be wary, then - fear. Uncontrollable desire makes you weak, insignificant and pathetic. To attract and keep attention, you need to create a contradiction in your image. If you are quiet, then hint that in the “other” business you are not so quiet that “the garden and gamora” together with the “kamasutra” nervously smoke on the sidelines. Create an image of mystery and furious sexuality. Your demeanor should change, do not pester him in one way. Such a combination of the incompatible attracts and excites an overwhelming interest.It is impossible to deceive a completely satisfied person; Arouse a feeling of anxiety, dissatisfaction with life circumstances and yourself: it is bland and boring, even if it is not so, a swarm is deeper, there are always black holes. You must be the salvation and solution of all questions, build confidence in him. Show me what's interesting with you, your life is full of colors and not as gray as his. Let him feel the temptation of a “tasty life” - and seduction will not be difficult for you. That's not all! The main vulnerable goal to be marked is his past. You have to pull out his experiences to show that he is too lost in life, forgot what you wanted, but you are that ray of light that will lead him to the bright road. You are his chance to fix it! Let's say this: cause him uncertainty about something important for him, make him think and doubt what his idea is, and then help him formulate it. Be observant and take into account all the subtleties, talk streamlined without straightness. Do not say clear answers and specific phrases, be diplomatic. Learn to inspire him with what you need.Speak so that your thought is formed in his head! Originate thoughts with hints, almost imperceptible. In fact, nothing complicated. You say in passing, something in the form of a hint and wait. Soon, it will bear fruit. Start with emotions and vivid experiences, remind you of when it was good. Get into his brain, remember together childhood, how his parents loved him or not, what he wanted and did not get. After all, there is always something that he promised and did not fulfill. Choose touching moments. He will only hear his own thoughts - this is the language of the subconscious. Stir up his imagination, reveal all the most secret desires and engage in the thought you need. After a while, he himself will turn to you, unaware of anything, and you will get a result. There are so few secrets in the world, usually everyone says at once what they want or what they feel. Hints, whisperings, subtexts create a seductive atmosphere, giving your object the opportunity to get carried away and plunge into the world of dreams. Create a temptation: let him catch a glimpse of anticipation and pleasure. Waving the long-awaited "prize" in front of his eyes, awaken curiosity. Say what he wants to hear, what he is interested and pleasant. This is the essence of the language of seduction.If you manage to create the illusion that his dreams will come true in reality, you will have complete power over him. Bringing the object so that it loses the ability to distinguish fiction from reality. Bans and taboos are not yours, create the illusion that with you he can go far. Exploring your dark side is more attractive than loving "virtue." It is enough to take your victim to the forbidden line, call in him the desire to cross it with you, and then it will be difficult for him to stop. When you lead this game in seduction, you are different - brighter, mysterious, confident, sexy, intriguing. You create the mystery and the illusion of something unusual. This is not quite you, playing several roles at once, hiding minor flaws and complexes from the eyes. In short, your main task is to create a “world” in which he can be forgotten. The main thing is not to allow your object to doubt your sincerity and decide that you are manipulating it, then you will immediately alienate it from yourself. Engage him in the illusion sincerely. To consolidate the result, when your “precious” is already ripe, show him that this is not the end, that you are ready for it for everything.Do not let your relationship become a daily routine, work on it. Forget the word "stability" is the end of a relationship. Always improve, do not relax, even if you consider yourself a super beauty. Any image is boring, so stay mysterious and unpredictable. You should not be like a read book, you are a mystery. Pick his brains, causing excitement and fear of losing you. Hold him in erotic tension. Remember, the main thing is reality is not seductive. Otherwise, you will have no one to blame for the consequences, except for yourself. And do not be afraid to turn it all over, dare, it will entice you. Enjoy the game.