How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

Not many things in life are as important as a true friend. Whether it is a childhood friend or classmate from student days, it’s 100% that you went through a lot together. After all, friendship is not only a guarantee that you will always be with someone for the tenth time to reconsider "Sex and the City", but also a great joint emotional experience. One study even showed that the female brain is “programmed” to look for a girlfriend during times of stress or depression.

But, undoubtedly, the role of a friend in our life changes with time - as we grow up and change ourselves. So…

When are you over 20

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You leave the walls of your native university and you no longer see your friends every day. At first, this is very unusual: you are still constantly talking and chatting, but gradually you come to understand that you will not return the time when the choice of a dress for a party was the main problem.

If you have not yet met your love, then this stage of adult life turns into the choice of a suitable man. You meet with different guys, discuss it behind meetings with friends, laughing at funny messages and strange stories from personal life.

Turning the guys, your main goal now becomes a career. According to the study, 80% of people in more than 20 years old understand that they are not in their place. This will help to understand and your girlfriend, who constantly complain about the routine work and the terrible boss. They are as disappointed as you are.

Gradually, your crazy youth with miniskirts and parties in night clubs turns into memories that can be freshened up on old photo albums in the social network. Now, instead of joint adventures in clubs and cafes, you often “have fun” at the weddings of girlfriends.

When are you over 30

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You still sometimes arrange hen parties, but mostly at someone’s home, because one thought at least 15 minutes in a noisy crowded cafe is already scary. In addition, one of her friends was fascinated by cooking delicious cupcakes and a party at her house - this is just the opportunity to try them.

You finally mastered the art of paying your utility bills correctly and on time, and this gave you more confidence, and in every aspect of your life: you learned to wear red lipstick boldly and even tactfully asked for a promotion. Financial independence during this period also meansthat you and your friends can go out of town together, and not even sleep 5 people in a room, but take private rooms and order a masseuse in the sauna.
You get used to the fact that girlfriends become mothers, and the phrase “I can't, I breastfeed the baby” becomes a new excuse. You no longer need the advice of a friend, do you need to do a tattoo, and instead you begin to compare interest rates on loans.
Your metabolism slows down, but, fortunately, your friends have the same thing, so you always have someone to drink an oxygen cocktail or go to the gym.

When are you over 40

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You have settled down in family life, you love your children and husband, but you don’t know what you would do if you didn’t have girlfriends whom you could complain about the whims of children. You are so busy at work and with your family, that time with friends is a great luxury that you relish. Therefore, when you finally meet in a cafe, you sit still for a long time even after the bill has already been paid.

“Middle-aged enlightenment” comes to you when you realize that if you want to learn a new language or run a marathon, then it's time to do it now, and your friends will get carried away with this idea along with you.

The wedding period may turn into a divorce period when 40-year-old women begin to realize that their 20-year-olds are more interested in their husbands.

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  • How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years

    How female friendships change at 20, 30 and 40 years