All relationships have been tricked

Tender feelings, anger, denial, depression - it's all normal after a break.

You have probably heard before, "Just hurt your ego" or "It's you who's angry right now, but it will soon pass away."
But in those moments it didn’t seem to you at all that all those painful memories of good times, the promises you made to each other, the feelings you had - that all this would ever pass.

And if you broke up on a bad note, it's still worse.

And what kind of relationship ends well, ask?

But some situations are worse than others. For example, if you find out that he:

  • never wanted anything serious
  • lied to you about your prospects and future
  • just used you

And then worse. But there is something that will help you survive this period ...

This is the realization that your thoughts are not true now.

Often, the pain and bitterness of losing just distorts your vision of the situation.

First, remember that people change.

Now you think that all that was was a lie: from the moment you met to the separation.

But most likely, he also thought that something would work out for you, but then ... he changed his mind. He has changed. He was not going to deceive you. When he spoke important words to you, he thought so, but then something happened, his life went differently.

Or maybe even something has changed in you that changed him.

And then he began to drift away, his words began to sound strange - maybe then he began to intimidate. In fact, he might even have tried to spare your feelings. He just did not know what to do. Why is that?

There are many reasons. Maybe this is some kind of spiritual awakening, new goals in life, a new job, the death of someone close to them.

Or purely internal changes - those that are invisible.He decided for himself to choose a different path, and you do not fit there. And should not. If you are not desirable in his life. You must find your way and the one who wants to go on it with you.

It also happens that we experience the separation so hard that we blame the other person, saying that his feelings were not real.

But if your relationship lasted longer than a few months, then this is not true. It just hurts you, that's why you say that. And vice versa: just the realization that you had such amazing moments together that you really had all this will help you to get rid of pain.

Do not cry because it's over.Smile, because it all happened.

Tips on how to survive parting:

1. Force yourself to be more realistic when you think about the past and your past.

2. Try not to scold him, even if he deserves it. You will regret it later, while other people will find you crazy.

3. Out of sight, out of mind. Break all links with him, delete all contacts, block all his pages in your social networks.

4. Contact friends and family for support, to get distracted.

5. Survive your pain. Know that it will be difficult, accept it. Then it will not be so frightening. You'll see.

Time heals all wounds. And this one too.

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