5 stages of intimacy (and why you need to know which one you are in)

We have all heard of the five stages of the inevitable adoption of the Kubler-Ross model: denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. Believe it or not, grief and intimacy reflect each other - intensity, boredom, victory and defeat. And at what stage are your relationships?

  1. Enthusiasm

“O God, I finally met the love of my life! He is perfect, I want to marry him. I can not believe that we have so much in common. He's great in bed. I can't wait to see him again. ”

Oh, the sweet hobby stage. Before her so hard to resist. Hormones and logic rarely coincide, so we constantly look at the phone in anticipation of his call or message, buy new clothes, go on a diet, etc.

Passion causes your dopamine levels to rise, causing a full body euphoria that makes people crave sex again and again. Studies have shown that the brain during orgasm is 95% the same as in a state of drug intoxication.

However, your brain will not be able to support work in such an intensive mode. Therefore, the passion will go to no.

  1. Landing

Landing after a fantastic flight of your emotions may seem frightening, because you will see things more real than in the first stage. On the day when you wake up and realize that you did not marry the wrong man, you will understand that your marriage has really begun. This means that from your eyes the veil of passion and enthusiasm was asleep and a clear vision of everyday life appeared.

“Wow, he is neurotic ... Oh, no, he is joking terribly ... I didn’t think about him at all yesterday. I hope everything is all right with us. ”

At the stage of landing, you can feel easy and cute or remain confused. In the end, the clock strikes midnight, and the carriage turns into a pumpkin, and the coachman into a rat. Landing is so sweet and bitter.

  1. Burial

This stage comes when all lists of vital matters interfere with relationships. Conversations at this stage focus on who does the washing, cleaning, cooking, etc.

At the burial stage, life's things crowd out your beautiful oasis of relationships. This stage is not always bad, it is a sign that relationships become realistic and are woven into your everyday life.

It is important to remember that you must not “harm” yourself.Sign up for tango lessons, go on a date, have sex in public, buy new sex toys, tie a partner to the bed or take a whip. Do something that will allow real life to take a break and bring delicate, sweet intimacy into relationships, and go on to the next step.

  1. Recovery

Recovery is the stage at which you turn to your partner and tell yourself: “Wow, I forgot how hot he is,” or: “He’s awesome!” Or “I love him very much.”

Recovery is the resolution of relationships: “He sits in the bathroom for hours reading the news, but I spend a long time plucking my eyebrows.”

The joint problem that you two coped with, for example, a great date, a terrific night of sex, almost a loss of a partner, can provoke a renewed relationship.

  1. Love

When you fight for the console, cook together or fool around thinking: “I am happy” or “I love him more than I could imagine” - and there is a stage of love.

Here sex is (usually) better than ever. True love flourishes for about five years, the rest of the time - its rotation, sometimes fast, sometimes slow, at other stages.

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