Let's dispel the myth: a boy and a girl can certainly be friends, and I am a living proof of this. If you do not believe in a friendship between a man and a woman, you are either too blinkered, or you want to fuck every young man you meet. And you lose a lot, because being friends with guys is something completely special. And that's why:
A real friendship between a boy and a girl is like a climax without sex. But what is most pleasant: if they do not want to crawl under your skirt, they will open their mind and a man’s view of life to you. It’s not always beautiful, but it’s an amazing experience that you’ll enjoy.
They will make you laugh if you are sad, and burst out laughing when you have fun. Especially in the most inappropriate moments. They will always find the right words and show that things are not as bad as they seem. They tease you and come up with strange nicknames, but this is their way to show love to you. In addition, their compliments are so rare that when you receive them, you know that they are real.
Since they do not plan to get into your bed, they never pretend.They do not need to hold back on your poorly chosen dress or makeup. Guys are usually more spontaneous and easy-going, and, as a rule, more objective and understandable, because they are not afraid of your reaction. They will also be sure to say if you make a mistake instead of curling over you.
They will know if your boyfriend is cheating on you, and they will be the first to tell about it. But they also know you, and will wait patiently until you find out everything yourself. It may take a year or two, but in the end, you will understand that they were right. They are also ready to hit your abuser if you feel better about it.
Yes, if you became a friend to them, you became your pug girl. And there is something subtly beautiful, pure and genuine.
You will have to share their hobbies, be it poker in the evenings, watching football, weird TV shows, etc. Guys can inspire, in their own way.
This happens sometimes: a guy who terribly dislikes you came up to you, and you are desperately looking for a way out. And then they come into play.You have an incredible chemistry, and you have known each other for a long time, so they are convincing enough to save you from such an awkward situation.
Guys help live a moment and remind you that it is sometimes useful to drop perfectionism. And, over time, you will become more relaxed and carefree. They never make plans or make up excuses, and there is always some unexpected element in the equation. This can be an exciting experience.
It sounds silly, but you will like it.
You will not be the only girl in their life, otherwise you would not be friends. But such friendships are so rare that they will do everything possible so that you know how important you are to them. In addition, they will always help you, no matter what trouble you get.